Yilokho okushiwo yizazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, ukukhulula ukungezwani kwengqondo, ukuzama ukulungisa imicabango kanye nemicabango yakho. Uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi iseshini iphele ngocansi besifazane, le ntokazi ibingenawo amaphela amaningi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi wayekhululekile, ngakho iseshini ayizange ibe yize!
Yeka umbhangqwana osemusha oshisekayo! Ezingxoxweni zabo kuyacaca ukuthi kade bagcinana. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, ngicabanga ukuthi intombazane ikhuluma kakhulu, okungukuthi ayiyithandi ngempela inqubo ngokwayo futhi ayivumeli umlingani wayo ukuthi agxilise ingqondo.